Fantasy and Roleplaying

A number of years ago, I took a rather casual poll of my lady friends about how they fantasize. I didn’t ask them what their particular fantasies were so much as how they went about it. I was probably in my late twenties, and it was way before I learned the term...

Locked Doors and Silent Screams

After our first child was born, there wasn’t a huge shift in our sexual practice as a couple. We could feel pretty rest-assured that she would stay in her bedroom most of the night, and we could still fool around on the downstairs sofa or outside on the patio...

Reading as a Writer

Whenever I pick up a book, I read it on a number of levels. I read for content, plot and general enjoyment of reading, but I always look at things from a writer’s perspective. I’ll be reading along and come to an abrupt halt. Why did I stop? I’ll...

About Writing Sex

I’m calling the site Writing Sex, but I won’t actually be putting much sexually explicit writing on here. I’m going to be blogging more about the process of writing sex for erotica and how sex influences my life. It’s everywhere and, like the...